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Miss you Nana!

2011-12-26T20:20:00.000-05:00

Nana’s Legacy

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no records of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-8, 13

Nancy Laws Copeland was the epitome of the faithful servant to Christ but most importantly to me she was my Nana and one of my best friends. She was a faithful daughter, good wife, loving mother, encouraging friend, loving grandmother and great grandmother. She prayed constantly for her family, her church and her friends. Whenever I, either for me or someone else, needed prayer I would call Nana because I always said she had a direct line to God.

Nana had a quiet, strong utmost faith in her Lord. Despite all she had been through in her life she knew that the Lord would keep his promises to her. Even when the storms and darkness of life would assail her she did not waver. Nana lived through war, social upheaval, and personal strife within her family over the years along with difficult medical issues especially over the last few years. Despite all of these tribulations, Nana’s strength was truly in the Lord. Watching her handle the challenges in her life has given me strength in my own journey. Her strength was a blessing to all of us.

Nana leaves three children, two sons in law, a daughter in law, two daughters of her heart, three grandchildren and a great grandson– all of whom were much loved. Nana was proud of every one of us – she always knew what was special about each of us. Nana loved that we were each our own person with our own strengths and weaknesses. Nana’s constant prayer of hope for each of us was that we find the same kind of personal relationship with the Lord she experienced. Nana believed in the promises made by Jesus and knew that Jesus was the way, the truth and the light (John 14:6).

And in this hope, Nana knew about the need we all have for forgiveness. In order to love the Lord and each other we must open our hearts and forgive ourselves for things we think we should have done and forgive each other for those things done against us. Despite what any of us may have done or not done, Nana offered forgiveness and abiding love. There were times we both had to work through issues and leave them in the past. We helped each other do that and we learned forgiveness was a blessing to the one who was forgiving. Nana taught me I cannot control other people but I can open my heart to move forward in the Lord’s unfailing love as Nana always did.

Do not let this fool you into thinking Nana and I always agreed. There were times, Nana and I did not always see eye to eye. Our discussions could get interesting depending on the subject matter. Plus Nana could be stubborn although she did not call it that – she just thought she was right. Some people say I get my independent streak from her and when Little Frank gets stubborn I see her in him. So there were times we would agree to disagree. We always agreed that we were still family, still friends, still loved each and still were praying for each other.

And Love, Nana was love in so many ways. When I was young, Laurens always meant Nana, Gran, rainbow sherbert, homemade rolls, coca cola in the bottle (no ice), the front porch swing and walks to library. I still have my pot belly Percy bear I got for Christmas one year that I remember dragging down the steps. I acted out all of kinds of stories on the front porch of Nana’s house and under the magnolia trees out front. My imagination always had plenty of ways for me to play. Then was the closet upstairs with the toys and the train whistle at night. I went to swimming and to summer camp at Camp Fellowship. I would spend hours in the bottom floor of the old Laurens library on South Harper Street.

Nana and I always shared a love of reading, history, enjoying sports although she was a Clemson football and North Carolina basketball fan (you know I love my Gamecocks and Duke basketball) and the theater. We had a wonderful trip together to Williamsburg when we explored together. I loved going to the Little Theater with Nana – it was our special time together. At the Sunday matinee I would tease her about me being the youngest one there so she had the best date. Nana and I talked about all sorts of things – she always believed in me and encouraged me to follow my dreams. Nana was the one person who did not fuss about my teenage driving. There were holidays in Laurens like Thanksgiving and other celebrations. Little Frank’s first birthday party was at Nana’s house which is a memory I will always treasure. I remember how excited Nana was when I told her we were having a baby. She was thrilled and I felt her prayers throughout the entire time.

Nana was the kind of person I want to be. Nana was active in her church including her circle and Sunday school. She always had a dessert ready the freezer for bereavement of church members and kept her prayer list by her Bible. Nana was active in the hospital auxiliary and other groups. She liked to play bridge and socialize with her friends. Nana was a teacher who impacted many students. Nana was someone you wanted to be friends with because she genuinely cared. Nana put Christ first and it showed in all that she was here on earth.

Nana – I love you and I know you love me. Little Frank wants us to come visit you in heaven. I explained it is too far to pack and drive right now but we will be together in heaven one day. He still wants to know more specifics as four year olds do. I told him you were so special Jesus called you home because he needed you more than we did. I know how special you are which makes me glad Jesus let you stay here with me for as long as he did.

I am filled with joy at the thought of you in heaven because I know you are exactly where you always wanted to be. Your chains are gone, you are without pain and sorrow. You were a blessing to us here and have given us a strong foundation to move forward. I know you would want us to be happy for you so I hope you do not mind but I am still going to cry a little down here. They are happy tears because I have so many precious memories of you and me. I will always carry you in my heart until we meet again and please keep praying for us because now you really do have a direct line to the Lord.

Jesus said: “So with you: Now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice; and no one will take away your joy.” John 16:27

Blessings...

2011-04-08T11:35:00.000-04:00

In finishing my first week of business ownership I am happy to report I am still here. It has been an interesting week and I hope to fully operational with no more bumps in the road soon. Today's frustration is printer related as I cannot get my new printer to work. Technology can be frustrating! I have met with a couple of clients and hope to be working on files soon.

In going through the process of deciding to open my own law firm I prayed alot. I still am praying! I know in my heart the God has a plan for me in this world and hope that I am doing his will.

One song I have enjoyed during this time is from Laura Story.

Laura Story - "Blessings" Lyrics

We pray for blessings
We pray for peace
Comfort for family, protection while we sleep
We pray for healing, for prosperity
We pray for Your mighty hand to ease our suffering
All the while, You hear each spoken need
Yet love us way too much to give us lesser things
‘Cause what if your blessings come through raindrops
What if Your healing comes through tears
What if a thousand sleepless nights
Are what it takes to know You’re near
What if trials of this life are Your mercies in disguise

We pray for wisdom
Your voice to hear
And we cry in anger when we cannot feel You near
We doubt Your goodness, we doubt Your love
As if every promise from Your Word is not enough
All the while, You hear each desperate plea
And long that we'd have faith to believe

‘Cause what if your blessings come through raindrops
What if Your healing comes through tears
What if a thousand sleepless nights
Are what it takes to know You’re near
And what if trials of this life are Your mercies in disguise

When friends betray us
When darkness seems to win
We know the pain reminds this heart
That this is not, this is not our home,
It's not our home

‘Cause what if your blessings come through raindrops
What if Your healing comes through tears
And what if a thousand sleepless nights
Are what it takes to know You’re near

What if my greatest disappointments
Or the aching of this life
Is the revealing of a greater thirst this world can’t satisfy
And what if trials of this life
The rain, the storms, the hardest nights
Are your mercies in disguise

Happy Birthday to Me!

2011-03-24T09:23:00.000-04:00

Thank you for all the birthday wishes! Frank IV wanted to know where my presents were this morning...he wanted to "help" unwrap them. :)

It has been quick year and hopefully I am another year wiser. I am blessed to have the love and support of my family and friends. Y'all make it all worthwhile.

Love to everyone!

Happy New Year!

2011-01-05T12:04:00.000-05:00

I hope everyone had a wonderful holiday and is ready to enjoy 2011. I will be praying that you have a wonderful 2011.

I hope this year to be more open to God's plan for me, my family and the world. I have agreed to act the church Treasurer at our church which is a huge responsibility and I am praying that I do God's will. We are in the process of making some changes on how we handle matters financailly at church (coming into the electronic age) so it will be a learning experience. I am also continuing with my Disciple II bible study on Monday nights and singing with the choir. Last Sunday I was the only lady there and sang with five gentlemen for our 11am service. Frank IV will be starting in our children's choir this month too.

We continue to live at Newport Drive where we are enjoying our new freezer thanks to Nannie and Granddaddy! I am thrilled to have the freezer and continue to try to organize all of the new Christmas toys and general "stuff" that has us bursting at the seams. We were blessed at Christmas time, especially Frank IV who continues to try and play with everything he received.

Work wise, I am still at Merritt, Flebotte, Wilson, Webb & Caruso, PPLC as an associate attorney. Frank continues to work at Blythewood Oil and operate Cahoons Closet, LLC. Frank IV continues in the three year old class at Brookland Academy where is he progressing rapidly. We are working on letter and word recognition and he can almost count to 100. I am the PTO president until May 2011 as well.

We are looking forward to celebrating Frank's 4th birthday on February 2, 2011 and having an awesome new year. Until we talk again, Keep a Song in Your Heart...here is a good one!

"I'm gonna live so God can use me anywhere, Lord, anytime!

I'm gonna live so God can use me anywhere, Lord, anytime!

I'm gonna work so God can use me anywhere, Lord, anytime!

I'm gonna work so God can use me anywhere, Lord, anytime!

I'm gonna pray so God can use me anywhere, Lord, anytime!

I'm gonna pray so God can use me anywhere, Lord, anytime!

I'm gonna sing so God can use me anywhere, Lord, anytime!

I'm gonna sing so God can use me anywhere, Lord, anytime!"

Merry Christmas!

2010-12-21T10:37:00.001-05:00

Merry Christmas to everyone. We hope that you have a holiday season filled with blessings and time with family. As we try to tell Frank IV, it is not about the presents (presents are a fun part) but about the birth of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. In the hustle and bustle of Christmas I hope you have time to reflect and remember the true reason for the season.

As I look back over the year of 2010, it has been filled with challenges, laughter and tears. I could not have made it through the year without the knowledge that God was with me every step of the way, despite me asking "why me?" I do not know the road that lies ahead but I look forward to the challenge knowing that I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. For that I am truly thankful and blessed.

Luke Chapter 2: "1 In those days, Caesar Augustus made a law. It required that a list be made of everyone in the whole Roman world. 2 It was the first time a list was made of the people while Quirinius was governor of Syria. 3 All went to their own towns to be listed. 4 So Joseph went also. He went from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea. That is where Bethlehem, the town of David, was. Joseph went there because he belonged to the family line of David. 5 He went there with Mary to be listed. Mary was engaged to him. She was expecting a baby. 6 While Joseph and Mary were there, the time came for the child to be born. 7 She gave birth to her first baby. It was a boy. She wrapped him in large strips of cloth. Then she placed him in a manger. There was no room for them in the inn.

8 There were shepherds living out in the fields nearby. It was night, and they were looking after their sheep. 9 An angel of the Lord appeared to them. And the glory of the Lord shone around them. They were terrified. 10 But the angel said to them, "Do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy. It is for all the people. 11 Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you. He is Christ the Lord. 12 Here is how you will know I am telling you the truth. You will find a baby wrapped in strips of cloth and lying in a manger." 13 Suddenly a large group of angels from heaven also appeared. They were praising God. They said, 14 "May glory be given to God in the highest heaven! And may peace be given to those he is pleased with on earth!" 15 The angels left and went into heaven. Then the shepherds said to one another, "Let's go to Bethlehem. Let's see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about." 16 So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph and the baby. The baby was lying in the manger. 17 After the shepherds had seen him, they told everyone. They reported what the angel had said about this child. 18 All who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. 19 But Mary kept all these things like a secret treasure in her heart. She thought about them over and over. 20 The shepherds returned. They gave glory and praise to God. Everything they had seen and heard was just as they had been told."

Thank you Veterans & Active Duty Servicemen and Women

2010-11-11T11:55:00.000-05:00

Dear Lord: Thank you for all of our veterans and currently servicing military troops that support and defend our country. Please be with them as they serve and bless those families who lost loved ones in defense of our country. Help those who have returned injured to heal and be with all military families on this Veteran's Day 2010. Amen.

Fall Festival 2010 - Frank & Friends October 29, 2010

2010-11-07T17:17:00.000-05:00

Soccer Fall 2010 - Go Owls!!

2010-11-07T17:07:00.000-05:00

Christmas is coming soon

2010-11-07T16:51:00.000-05:00

You can find our lists on Amazon.com. Check for updates.

We are looking forward to spending time with friends and family over the holidays.

Braves Game

2010-07-19T14:58:00.002-04:00

Frank and I had lots of fun at the Braves game Saturday night. He surprised me with seats behind home plate. We got to see everything up close! We ate supper in the 755 Club overlooking the ball park. All of the people were very nice and helpful. We had an enjoyable time.

Gamecocks Win

2010-06-30T08:59:00.000-04:00

We are National Champions in Baseball for 2010! Awesome victory in the 11th inning. Way to go Gamecocks. I had no idea the season would end up this way way back in the beginning with losses to ECU and Clemson. This team fought back from adversity and being down so many times to finally win the CWS. Way to go Gamecocks!!

Go Gamecocks

2010-06-29T16:01:00.000-04:00

I am hoping the Gamecocks continue their winning ways and win the baseball national championship tonight. I would have loved to be in Omaha to cheer in person for the team and to enjoy some yummy steaks! Let's go Gamecocks!!

Trip to Zoo June 3 2010

2010-06-04T12:42:00.000-04:00

Frank and Daddy

Frank and Mommy Frank around Zoo

We took an evening trip to the zoo on June 3, 2010. It was fun to be there with hardly anyone else there. This time we got to see all of the outside animals, although the lions and tiger were sleeping. We did see the new baby giraffe. Frank loved seeing the animals.We also had dinner and saw some friends from around town I went to law school with and worked with.

Happy Memorial Day 2010

2010-05-28T16:24:00.000-04:00

Thank you to all the men and women who have given their lives to protect the USA. God bless you.

More May Day Pictures - May 1, 2010

2010-05-12T19:49:00.000-04:00

Frank is first runner up! He is a real cutie!

Frank escort Jessica during the introduction of the May Day Court

Frank's class performs Mr Sun with Ms. Sultan and Ms. Grimes

Kelsey, Josh, Frank and Kori

Frank helps wrap the May Day pole with the May Day Court

Frank & Mommy

Why Frank IV loves his Mother

2010-05-10T15:18:00.000-04:00

Happy Mother's Day 2010.

Frank said he loved his mother at church in children's church because she made him cereal! I did make him some cereal before church that day. He certainly made the children's church volunteers laugh.

Patience Please

2010-05-06T09:36:00.000-04:00

Last night at church I really needed some patience. Even with trying really hard to work with Frank IV I ended up grabbing him and leaving early. Then he cried all the way home because he wanted to go back to church. Argh! He would not be quiet during the service even with 4 different types of toys to play with. I took him out and talked with him. He promised to listen and be quiet. Did not work! So then I said we are leaving and we did. No yelling by me just firm words then action. We then went home and took and bath and he went to bed at about 9pm.

Make Today A Good Day! (Point of Grace "How You Live")

2010-05-05T09:34:00.000-04:00

So we all have bad days, good days, in between days. I usually had in between days although I had some bad days in April. I am trying to make a concerted effort to have Good Days! No more in between days - every day needs to be a good day. It starts with prayer in the morning, then constant prayer after that. I am trying very hard to place all of my "burdens/cares" on God because I do not have to worry when God "has my back."

"Wake up to the sunlight with your windows open. Don't hold in your anger or leave things unspoken. Wear your red dress, use your good dishes. Make a big mess and make lots of wishes. And have what you want, but want what you have
and don't spend your life looking back.

Turn up the music, turn it up loud. Take a few chances and let it all out 'cause you won't regret it. Looking back from where you have been 'cause it's not who you knew and it's not what you did.

It's how you live

So go to the ballgames and go to the ballet and go see your folks more than just on the holidays. Kiss all your children, dance with your wife. Tell your husband you love him every night. Don't run from the truth 'cause you can't get away, no. Face it and you'll be okay

Oh, wherever you are and wherever you've been now is the time to begin. So give to the needy, and pray for the grieving even when you don't think that you can 'cause all that you do is bound to come back to you. So think of your fellow man
and make peace with God, and make peace with yourself 'Cause in the end, there's nobody else."

May Day 2010

2010-05-04T18:19:00.000-04:00

Frank was part of Brookland Academy's May Day celebration on May 1. 2010. He was the first runner up in the May Day King competition and his class performed "Mr. Sun." All of the children did an outstanding job.

Frank is May Day 1st Runner Up (Again)

2010-04-28T12:28:00.000-04:00

Congratulations to Frank IV who came in as the first runner up again at the Brookland Academy May Day celebration. Frank raised the second highest amount for the fundraiser. The money goes to help fund PTO activities like teacher appreciation week, fall festival and other activities and needed items for the Academy.

Thank you to everyone who sent in money to help with this fundraiser! We are looking forward to seeing Frank perform Saturday with his class and to get his recognition as first runner up.

Current Fav Song

2010-04-07T15:58:00.000-04:00

Kutless - "What Faith Can Do"

Everybody falls sometimes, Gotta find the strength to rise

From the ashes and make a new beginning, Anyone can feel the ache

You think it’s more than you can take, But you are stronger, stronger than you know

Don’t you give up now, the sun will soon be shining

You gotta face the clouds, To find the silver lining

I’ve seen dreams that move the mountains

Hope that doesn’t ever end, Even when the sky is falling

And I’ve seen miracles just happen

Silent prayers get answered

Broken hearts become brand new

That’s what faith can do

It doesn’t matter what you’ve heard, Impossible is not a word

It’s just a reason for someone not to try

Everybody’s scared to death, when they decide to take that step

Out on the water, It’ll be alright

Life is so much more, Than what your eyes are seeing

You will find your way, If you keep believing

I’ve seen dreams that move the mountains

Hope that doesn’t ever end, Even when the sky is falling

And I’ve seen miracles just happen

Silent prayers get answered

Broken hearts become brand new

That’s what faith can do

Overcome the odds, You don't have a chance

(That’s what faith can do)

When the world says you can’t, It’ll tell you that you can!

I’ve seen dreams that move the mountains

Hope that doesn’t ever end, Even when the sky is falling

And I’ve seen miracles just happen

Silent prayers get answered

Broken hearts become brand new

That's what faith can do!

Even if you fall sometimes - You will have the strength to rise

Happy Day After Opening Day!

2010-04-06T16:13:00.000-04:00

The Braves Win! Atlanta won its opening day game against the Cubs in high scoring fashion.

Duke Wins! The one year I do not pick Duke to go all the way - they do! I just wish the game would start earlier.

Frank IV pics

2010-04-04T20:43:00.000-04:00

Frank & Granddaddy with GeoTrax April 4,2010

Nana and Frank Dec. 20, 2010 (Laurens)

Jordan, Frank, & Hunter Thanksgiving 2009. Frank Nov 2009

Our Store

2010-04-04T20:32:00.000-04:00

Pictures of the store from April 3, 2010.

As you can see, we have lots of options for really cute personalized items.

Happy Easter!

2010-04-04T20:25:00.000-04:00

Frank at the Grace Egg Hunt on April 3, 2010. Family after Easter service April 4, 2010.

Thoughts on My Birthday

2010-03-24T11:56:00.000-04:00

As I turn 36 and look back over the last year I am thankful for what God has provided. We sold our house (finally), celebrated our 4th wedding annivarsary, celebrated Thanksgiving and Christmas with family and friends, Frank IV turned three years old and we moved the business. It was a busy year - it went by very quickly! I look forward to even more wonderful things during the next year.

Sometimes it is hard when I get caught up in the every day same old - same old to remember the blessings that I do have. It is easier to focus on the little bad things instead of the good things. I am blessed with , a wonderful family, a great church (even if it is far away from our home right now), friends I can count on, a job and a being an American. I can celebrate my faith freely and take a moment to smile when Frank tried to pick every single yellow dandelion "flower" for Mommy. And I mean he wants to pick every single one.

I can hardly remember life before Frank IV and all the changes he has brought. Having a little one definitely helps bring you back to simple things and trying to find time to play. Life is definately a bit crazy sometimes and I could do without the tantrums...but every day I get to spend with "my Franks" is a good day. Now if we could get the poop in the potty instead of the pull up or briefs, even the tantrums might not be so bad. LOL.

Dear Lord:

Thank you for all the blessings you provide to me. Please help me to slow down, enjoy them and take time to pass on your love to those around me. Grant me patience and the knowledge that comes from your still soft voice. Help me to be more like Jesus and less like me. Amen.

Grace Softball Team Wins First Game 3.17.10

2010-03-18T11:08:00.000-04:00

The Cahoons were the EH "extra hitters" for the Grace Softball team last night. Lets just say Blakely has an on base perctage of 100. I got on base both times - without swinging the bat. Frank walked both times so I got to walk behind him. I did not score since it was with two outs and the next batter got out but I did make to first base and I was ready to run. Thankfully I did not to have to run since I am out of shape :). We had a fun although cold time.

Bible Study Verse for the week

2010-03-01T12:59:00.000-05:00

"Then Jesus declared, I am the bread of life. He who comes to me will never go hungry, and he who believes in me will never be thirty." John 6:35 NIV

"When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, I am the light of thr world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life." John 8:12 NIV

Brookland Academy PJ Party October 31, 2009

2010-02-27T11:35:00.002-05:00

Happy Halloween Pictures - Trunk or Treat at Grace UMC Oct. 25, 2009

2010-02-27T10:35:00.000-05:00

Snow Pictures Around our House Feb. 2010

2010-02-27T10:11:00.000-05:00

We got between 6-8 inches of snow between Friday night and Saturday morning. Frank had fun except his hands kept getting cold when we go outside. It was pretty and went away fast without too many problems so it was a nice snow.

Snow Pictures Feb 2010 - Frank

2010-02-27T09:48:00.000-05:00

Frank Visits his Friends Abbie and Robbie 12/24/09

2010-02-25T10:42:00.000-05:00

Frank Celebrates Mama-ma's birthday December 23, 2009

2010-02-25T10:38:00.000-05:00

Frank Sings with Brookland Academy Dec. 5, 2009

2010-02-25T10:31:00.000-05:00

Breakfast with Santa at Grace Dec 2009

2010-02-25T10:24:00.000-05:00

We had breakfast with Santa sponsored by the Girl Scouts at our church Saturday December 5, 2009. Frank got to talk with Santa and take pictures along with craft and breakfast. He told Santa he wanted "dinosaurs, farm animals, trains and Mickey Mouse". We had a good time!

The pics are of Frank and then Frank and Jennifer are with Santa. Ms. Jennifer helps take care of Frank for Mommy to go to bible study.

More Christmas pics 2009 from Moncks Corner

2010-02-25T10:18:00.001-05:00

Frank and Micky MouseFrank and Choo-chooFrank and KaelaFrank helps Mommy open present

Some Christmas 2009 Pictures

2010-02-24T16:32:00.000-05:00

Happy Birthday Frank IV!

2010-02-24T16:18:00.000-05:00

Frank has a birthday party at school with his friends

It was all about dinosaurs (and the short hair)! We had the party on February 5, 2010. Thank goodness Mama-ma was here to handle it since Mommy was sick at home with pneumonia. I missed all of fun. The children had a fun time with party hats and lots of treats. The even took home dinosaur goody bags.

Fun CVS trip 2/23/10

2010-02-24T16:05:00.000-05:00

Lest you think I am not couponing - we are. Just not as diligent about reporting as before but Frank IV and I had a great CVS trip yesterday. We got a "bucket truck" for Frank (after much comparison shopping- should we get dinosaurs, Thomas, car sand then finally truck), tic tacs (orange) for Daddy, Huggies wipes, Pedi-paws. Coupons: $5/15 (from store machine), $2/ huggies (store machine), $10 ECB, $2ECB.

Out of pocket: $1.30 (.95 of taxes)
Total Value: $19.35

So those are pretty random and silly items but my $12ECBs were expiring yesterday and why not have a little fun shopping sometimes.

Thoughts of Lent and Easter

2010-02-18T09:17:00.000-05:00

I heard this song this morning and was just touched by the lyrics, especially as we draw towards Easter and remember the sacrifice Jesus made for us. I cannot imagine how Jesus felt knowing his Father sent him to earth to live and die as one of us. Jesus told the disciples several times that he was going to have to die and was well aware during his entry into Jerusalem what awaited him. What an AMAZING LOVE Jesus showed.

"I was dreaming about Heaven, I was standing at the Pearly Gates

We all there And I was so scared in the presence of One so great

I felt so worried and unworthy, I felt like running away

I bowed my head and I turn to go, Then I heard someone say

Father, this one's with me, Part of the family

One of the reasons I died On Calvary

Father, welcome him in I paid the price for him

Father, oh Father, this one's with me. "

(Newsong - This One's With Me.)

Pnuemonia

2010-02-09T11:59:00.000-05:00

is not fun. It is not fun being sick. At one point I was so sick I could not even read and it was hard to sleep when I could not breathe! I have been sick for over 9 days at this point. I have been to the doctor three times and I am taking medications. Today I am at work and it is difficult to concentrate for long periods of time and I am just feeling tired. And this is the best I have felt in 9 days.

Big thanks to Mom who came up sick herself to take care of Frank IV for the weekend. She also did his birthday party at school on Friday. They had a dinosaur theme party and cake.

Frank IV does not understand I am sick. I keep telling him he cannot drink after me and that I do not want to play with his toys because I have "germs." I cannot afford for him to get sick since I have already had to take time off work without pay for myself. I have tried to still snuggle but not share too many germs with him.

Keep me in your prayers out there!

Cahoon's Closet is open for business

2010-01-14T11:52:00.000-05:00

We have opened up our new retail location under our name Cahoon's Closet. We are located at 1901 Hampton Street. It is the corner of Gregg and Hampton streets in downtown Columbia.

We look forward to old and new customers checking us out. We have a great selection of fun gifts and offer full line monogram and personalization services.

Couponing Update

2010-01-14T11:49:00.000-05:00

Yes, I am still couponing. Sort of had break between Thanksgiving and New Year with all we had going on. Now that I have new computer, printer and internet at home I up and running again. Amazing how many more bargains I can find with the help of other couponers online!

Publix: Total Savings $39.49

Bi-Lo: Total Savings $25.05

Kroger: Total Savings $17.07

I am working again to make my savings more like 50% each week. I hope to have a big freezer soon so I can stock up when meat is on sale. That is what is pushing up my totals.

Happy New Year!

2010-01-12T12:27:00.000-05:00

Welcome 2010. We are looking forward to a great new year. We have moved our store to new location and hope for great things.

Frank IV is getting so big. He will be THREE on February 2, 2010. I still remember telling everyone the good news, arriving at the hospital, and bringing him home. He was so tiny and now we are fighting over the potty. Right now are challenge is the potty. Frank does well at school and not so well at home. We are trying to be patient and work with him and I know he will get it. Just not on our schedules!

One of my goals is to be better at taking pictures, organizing and posting them. I finally have the internet back at home with a new computer to work with. I also started organizing and working in my scrapbooking area. I finally unpacked someof the boxes from our move (Aug 2008). I have some fun pictures and things for Brooks pulled together. I thought Frank IV was maybe looking a little bit like Brooks but it is hard to say.

We appreciate the support and prayers of our family. We hope to spend more time with family this year - it costs very little and is priceless in measure!

Christmas Tree

2009-12-11T12:53:00.000-05:00

Frank IV and I put up the little Christmas tree Tuesday night. We also put out his cute Manager scene he got last year from Poppy Bob and Mu. Of course, now he just wants to play with the pieces. He has moved the whole thing a couple of times and keeps re arranging the pieces. It is a good way to learn about the story of Jesus birth.

To turn on the Christmas tree Frank IV blows on it and I hit the switch...poof...twinkly lights! Too cute! I did not pull out all the ornaments so it looks better in the dark. :)

"First Corinthians 13, Christmas Version"

2009-12-09T09:57:00.000-05:00

If I decorate my house perfectly with plaid bows, strands of twinkling lights and shiny balls, but do not show love to my family, I'm just another decorator.

If I slave away away in kitchen, baking dozens of Christmas cookies, preparing gourmet meals and arranging a beautifully adorned table at mealtime, but do not show love to my family, I'm just another cook.

If I work at the soup kitchen, carol in the nursing home, and give all that I have to charity, but do not show love to my family, it profits me nothing.

If I trim the spruce with shimmering angels and crocheted snowflakes, attend a myriad of holiday parties and sing in the choir's cantata, but do not focus on Christ, I have missed the point.

Love stops the cooking to hug the child.

Love sets aside the decorating to kiss the husband.

Love is kind, though harried and tired.

Love does not envy another's home that has coordinated Christmas china and table linens.

Love does not yell at the kids to get out of the way, but is thankful they are there to be in the way.

Love does not give only to those who are able to give in return but rejoices in giving to those who cannot.

Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Love never fails.

Video games will break, pearl necklaces will be lost, golf clubs will rust.

But giving the gift of Love will endure!

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May you feel the love from our family to yours this Christmas. Merry Christmas!
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Thank you God for sending your son Jesus to save us. Please help us to share that love and your spirit with those around us this holiday season and to carry that love forward to share throughout the year. Amen.

Grocery Store Round Up

2009-11-10T17:09:00.000-05:00

Publix: TOP: 37.41. Total Value; $105.77. Total Savings: $68.36 or 65%. Total Coupons: $24.80. Free 50 ct Tylenol PM (2), free bags of salad. Almost free Betty Crocker potatoes .08 or .07 per box = 4 boxes for .30 total. Hunts Tomatoes: .42/can. Kashi Honey Sunshine cereal: .50/box.

Kroger: TOP: $90.86. Total Value: $181.51. Total Savings: $90.65 or 50%. Total Coupons: $38.74 This would have been a better trip but I actually got razers for Frank who really needed them ($12.59-3 coupon=$9.59), diapers for shower present ($9.77.-$4coupon=$3.77), Johnson and Johnson baby shampoo/lotion for shower ($6-$2 coupons, $1 mega sale= $1.50 each)magic sizing (store=1.09) and popcorn snack for Frank (no coupon: 3.99) besides my groceries. Free dog biscuits ($2.99), free mandarin oranges. And Frank Frank's new favorite drink Sunny D for .79 each.

There were some good deals the last two weeks. Now I have to work on restocking the freezer since we have been eating out of it.

I am not a "texter" but watch out all of you that are!

2009-11-10T16:46:00.002-05:00

Grocery Update

2009-11-04T12:52:00.000-05:00

I have been without a debit card for 3 weeks. Wachovia actually delivered it to me today at my office...because of the long delay. So I have not been able to shop even at the grocery store and I have not been to drugstore either. Been using up my supplies. I actually have room for new stuff in freezer for a change.

Last week:
Publix: TOP: $35.16. Total Savings: $30.74 or 47%. Total Coupons: $22.10. best buy: $.19 glade candle (6).

Kroger: TOP: $102.22. Total Savings: $108.70 or 52%. Total Coupons: $48.09. Free; reeces cup (.79). best buy: chex mix (.49 a bag), Frank's hot sauce (.49).

TOP: $137.38. Total Savings: $139.44 or 50%. Total Coupons: $70.19

Answered Prayer - House Closing Happened

2009-11-01T16:38:00.000-05:00

Thank you Lord for answering our prayer. We could not have made it through the last 15 months without you. Continue to bless our family and help us to continue to realize what really matters. Amen.

After 15 long months...the House Closing is 24 hours away.

2009-10-29T12:50:00.000-04:00

Tomorrow afternoon is the final day! We are scheduled to close at 1pm. We finally got HUD issues worked out after 3rd version this morning. We are having to take more money than we anticipated to closing but hopefully we will have it this afternoon when Frank gets to bank to get check. Thankfully this is the last payment and hopefully the final water and electric will be minimal amounts since everything is switched off tomorrow.

Please keep praying everything works out so tomorrow we will have an answered prayer post!

Fun Fair Day

2009-10-21T17:11:00.002-04:00

Frank went to State Fair yesterday on his first field trip. Mama-ma and Mommy got to go too. Frank loved the petting zoo of course and was disappointed not to see more cows. They were moving dairy out and beef in. He had fun riding the rides. He rode the swing ride twice and it went up pretty high. He rode the car ride, the twirly boat (with Mommy), the swings twice, the carosel and the train. He also ate part of an elephant ear. Of course we got a picture at the Rocket! He did really good and we both a nap once we got home.

Why We Do Not Shop At Wal-mart...

2009-10-19T10:04:00.000-04:00

I highly agree with the author. Commentary: Wal-Mart and the high cost of 'cheap' at http://www.mcclatchydc.com/340/story/77290.html.

This is great little article on how Wal-mart works to drive out the local stores and then does not actually save you money after all. There are many items you can find at a lower price on sale at your local grocery store. Plus Wal-mart does not treat their employees very well oftentimes.

Shop locally to help your neighbors and keep your money in your community.

Happy Columbus Day

2009-10-12T10:51:00.000-04:00

We are working and Frank is in school but we had less traffic! If you have the day off I hope you enjoy it. It would have been a great day to sleep in. Frank kept telling me it was too dark to go to schoolthis morning. I told him if he had gone to bed at 8:30 last night when it was dark outside he would feel better waking up. He is not a morning person!

Looking like Fall

2009-10-12T10:46:00.000-04:00

Thanks to Frank IV and Mama-ma it looks like Fall around our house. Frank got a Halloween costume then picked out a pumpkin and yellow mums. All of which are currently being soaked by rain.

We tried to make a fall display around the light but Frank was having non of that. He wanted the pumpkin in the middle of the hedges so it is under the flag pole with the grass inbetween two shrubs. Frank was very particular about where he wanted it. :)

Quick Grocery Trip

2009-10-12T10:43:00.000-04:00

Publix: TOP: $16.12. Total Value: $27.44. Total Savings: $11.32 or 41%. Total Coupons: $9.98. Almost free: $.01 coffee. Got 18lb dog food, Visene for contacts, Coffee. Little Bites Muffind and Lysol.

Bilo: TOP: 33.47. Total Value: $54.96. Total Savings $22.03 or 40%. Total Coupons: $3.60. Nothing free but not to bad for what I ran in and got. Milk, Chips, Cran grape, 12 pack drink, 3 frozen meals, 1 non froz lunch meal, 2 bags of salad, grape tomatos, Orange Pineapple juice, lunch meat, mini raisins, 2 8 packs of water.

Interesting Read... The Shell Game by Steve Alten

2009-10-09T16:19:00.000-04:00

Grabbed this off the shelf at the library. It is a really interest political thriller..."what if" book. It is scary in that I could see how the events depicted could really happen. It really shows how dependent the US is on oil but also shows that potentially we could end that dependence if someone would take a stand for it. There would be some sacrifice along the way and some changes. It also paints a dark picture if things continue. Thought provoking reading and it moves quickly.

Frank III on injured reserve

2009-10-09T16:08:00.001-04:00

Frank managed to hurt his leg at the softball game Wednesday night. He is not sure what happened but his leg really hurts and he is on crutches. Nothing in broken but if he is not feeling better in a couple of days he will need to get a MRI to see if there is ligament damage. Frank 4 is wondering what the crutches are for and keeps trying to mess with his Daddy.

House Relief...

2009-10-07T12:43:00.000-04:00

Please keep up in your prayers. We have a closing set for October 30 for the old house. We are now scrambling to find the money we need to take to closing but hopefully we have worked out all the other issues. 15 months of two mortgage payments has been tough.

The Lost Symbol - Dan Brown

2009-10-02T12:17:00.000-04:00

Bought this and read while out of work sick with bad sinus infection this Monday and Tuesday. It took a few hours, pretty long plus I was sick but it was good. A little predictable but a quick read and enjoyable. Pretty amazing descriptions about Washington DC. I would like a "lost symbol" tour of DC - been awhile since I have been there. I feel sure Frank IV would go crazy over Air and Space Museum which is my least favorite but could send boys there and let Mommy go on her tour of Library etc.

I was down and out for 4 days but I am sort of feeling better finally...looking forward to some rest this weekend.

Grocery Sept 21, 2009

2009-09-22T11:58:00.000-04:00

Publix: TOP: $63.17. Total Value: $115.97. Total Savings: $51.95 or 45%. Total Coupons: $27.48.

Walgreens: TOP: $52.70 (before tax). Total Value: $105.41. Total Savings: $52.71 or 50%. Total Coupons: $29.25 (including Reg Rewards). I am taking some stuff back possible so it may be less.

Grocery Deals September 12

2009-09-12T17:52:00.001-04:00

Kroger: TOP: $21.41. Total Value: $61.18. Total Savings: $39.77 or 65%. Total Coupons: $14.20. FREE: gallon Milk, free Wheat bread, Cattleman BBQ sauce, Free Reece's cup 8 pack.

Bi-Lo: TOP: $58.00. Total Value: $133.46. Total Savings: $77.51or 58%. Total Coupons: $19.30. Almost free: Renuzit air freshner (.23), gallon swiss lemon tea (.24), & chex mix (.25). Laudry supplies and meat.

Publix: TOP: $15.96. Total Value: $29.69. Total Savings: $13.92 or 47%. Total Coupons: $1.98 (penny item). Bought 6 boxes of Little Bites (B1G1), gallon of tea, 2 donuts and vanilla wafers (penny item).

Week: TOP: $95.37. Total Value: $224.33. Total Savings: $128.96 or 57%. Total Coupons: $35.48.

Last Weekend Grocery

2009-09-10T12:07:00.000-04:00

Publix: TOP: $109.75. Total Value: $185.68. Total Savings: $75.93 or 41%. Total Coupons: $29.40. Free: Mrs. Paul's fishsticks, some good savings.

Target: TOP: $17.59. Total Value $19.79. Total Savings; $2.20. used some coupons but had to have some febreeze for other house.

Walgreens #1: TOP: $10.55. Total Value: $28.81. Total Savings: $18.26 or 63%.

Walgreens #2: TOP: $2.70. Total Value: $20.36. Total Savings: $17.66 or 87%.

Walgreens #3: TOP: $8.88. Total Value; $35.16. Total Savings: $26.28 or 75%.   At end of 3rd t'action I had $13 RR dollars back.

CVS #1: TOP: $5.88. Total Value: $55.74. Total Savings; $49.86 or 89%. Total Coupons & ECBs:  $25.99. Got back $7 ECB.

CVS #2: TOP:  $3.23. Total Value: $21.66. Total Savings: $18.43 or 85%.   Total Coupons & ECBs: $15.49. Free cover girl powder.  New ECBs: $6.00

TOP: 158.58. Total Value: $367.20. Total Savings: $208.62.

Frank plants fall flowers

2009-09-07T21:04:00.000-04:00

Labor Day Weekend

2009-09-04T15:32:00.003-04:00

We are excited Nannie and Granddaddy are on their way for the weekend. The store is open tomorrow. No big plans other than watching football and enjoying our time together. I may send the grandparents and toddler to the zoo and have some "quiet time." Of course I need to work in the yard and clean house...but quiet time seems like a better idea.

Hope you have a great long weekend!

Gamecocks Win...

2009-09-04T13:59:00.002-04:00

an awful ugly win but we will take a win anyday! Offense played okay, defense was better than what I expected. And we take a win any day. Now it is time to get ready for the Georgia Bulldogs in Athens. Go Cocks!

And for out football teams...

2009-09-03T08:43:00.001-04:00

USC - Go Cocks
East Carolina - Go Pirates
Wofford - Go Terriers
...and whoever is playing Clemson!

It's Football Time!

2009-09-03T08:39:00.004-04:00

Go Gamecocks!

Tonight we hope the Gamecocks have a win over NC State.

Let's Go Gamecocks Beat the Wolfpack!

Frank IV says "Go Cocks!"

CVS & Walgreens

2009-08-30T15:04:00.003-04:00

Walgreens #1 TOP: $24.15. Total Value: $88.68. Total Savings: $64.53 or 73%. Free: lipstick, listerine rinse, & carmex. Best deal: $.29 boxes of Huggies wipes (5). Ended up with $5RR and $3RR.

Walgreens #2: TOP: $2.52 {$4.13 less refund of 1.61 (wrong toothbrush)}. Total Value: $12.02. Total Savings: $ 9.50 or 79%.

Walgreens#3: TOP: $1.34. Total Value: $9.34. Total Savings: $8 or 86%.

CVS #1: TOP: $3.14. Total Value: 33.64. Total Savings: $30.50 or 91%. Total Coupons (inlcuding ECBs): $26.50. Got Back $5 ECB, $1 ECB, & 6.99 ECB.

CVS #2: $4.48. Total Value: $10.48. Total Savings: $6 or 57%. Coupon: $3. Got back $6.99 ECB which then took care of #3.

CVS: #3: TOP .32 cents. Total Value: $19.24. Total Savings: $18.92 or 98 %. Got newspaper ($3 version), sidewalk chalk, 6 bubbles, 1 toothbrush (Free).

I used my other CVS card on #2 & #3 so that is why I did not want to carry over ECBs...gets too tricky. But I have two nice candles for Frank's teachers and outside play stuff.

Week: TOP 36.05. Total Value: 173.58. Total Savings: 137.53 or 79%. Total Coupons:

Ending RR:
Ending ECB:

Grocery Update...

2009-08-30T14:32:00.002-04:00

Bi-Lo: TOP: $67.27. Total Savings: $79.86 or 54%. Total Coupons: $13.65. Free Lou Ann Canola Oil. We got Roast (5 lbs), shrimp, Kielbasa (4), 4 lbs of sandwich meat, ground turkey, carrots, fruit bowls, grapes, grape tomatos, salad mix, cheese, feta cheese, 3 packages of plates, tea (2 1/2 gallons) 2 packs of Hefty "go" cups, dial soap, Dawn and wheat torillas.

Kroger: TOP: $12.74 plus $3.50 Catalina next purchase. Total Savings: $28.77 or 69%. Total Coupons: 10.40. Free: Nothing but good deals on final day of Mega sale. 24 pack Aquafina, Dole Orange Pineapple, 5 BC boxes fruit treats, refried beans, cookie mix, chocolate cake delight, 1.5 lbs of Kraf cheese.

Publix: TOP: $60.82. Total Savings: $52.81 or 47%. Total Coupons: $22.30. I actually did not hand over $7 worth of coupons which would have made me at 50% savings. ARGH! Free: 4 10oz A1 Sauce and 1 McCormick seasoning.

Week: TOP $140.78. Total Value: 301.92. Total Savings: 161.44 or 53%. Total Coupons: $46.35

Yikes! We officially have no room in the freezer or fridge...things are falling out when the door is opened. We are stocked up...want to come over for dinner?? For dessert we have plenty of Fruit Roll ups or Fruit snacks or some lemon Italian ice. :)

Are You Ready for Some Football...

2009-08-27T10:30:00.002-04:00

I am! Go GAMECOCKS!

Only 7 more days until the Gamecocks head north to take on the Wolfpack. I am hoping for a great game and a win. I think the edge right now definitely goes to NC State with it being a home game and their more experienced QB (and our less unproven defense). But I think our team has something to prove this season and this could be the start of something good. With the toughest schedule around I do not have high expectations but I do expect some wins!

House update

2009-08-26T16:13:00.002-04:00

House is still for sale. price lowered again...more interest shown in house. One bad offer turned down twice.

Please keep praying we get house sold soon.

Prayer

2009-08-24T11:50:00.003-04:00

"Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God." Philippians 4:6.

Lord, Help me to continue to pray and seek you in all things. Please help us to get our house sold and help us grow our business. Continue to bless us and help me to accept those things around me I cannot change and live knowing you will take care of things in your time and not mine. Give me the patience to do your will. Amen

Grocery - Weekend of August 21-23, 2009

2009-08-22T09:15:00.004-04:00

Publix Trip #1 picture.

Kroger #1: TOP: $11.81. Total Value: $29.41. Total Savings: 17.60 or 60%. Total Coupons: $9.20. Free single Chiquita apple slice for Frank IV.

Bought: 1 Dole Pineapple Orange ($1.99); 2 Green Giant Sweet Peas ($.75/ea); 5 boxes of Betty Crocker Fruit Snacks ($.99 each after coupons); 1 bag Betty Crocker cookie mix ($.79 after coupons), strawberries ($1.99), 1 Betty Crocker Warm Delights ($.49 after coupons) and Chex Mix ($1.09 after coupons).

Kroger #2: TOP: $5.96. Total Value: $19.86. Total Savings: $13.90 or 70%. Total Coupons: $6.90. Bought 5 boxes of Betty Crocker Fruit Snacks & 5 cans of Green Giant green beans and peas.

Bi-Lo: TOP: $20.13. Total Value: $51.39. Total Savings: $31.26 or 61%. Total Coupons: $9.85. Free: 4 Method soap dispensers.

Bought 2 bags salad mix, grape tomatos, 1.7lb grapes, 2 boxes of Mr Clean Magic erasers, 1 gallon 2% Milk, 1 Gallon sweet tea, Feta Cheese, & bag of frozen skinless chicken tenders.

Publix #1: TOP: $5.16. Total Value: $28.04. Total Savings: $22.88 or 82%. Total Coupons: $9.58. Free: (2) Shout Triggers, Motts Applesause, Uncle Ben Chicken Rice. I have picture of this below.

Publix #2: Top $39.01. Total Value: $76.98. Total Savings: $37.97 or 49%. Total Coupons: $15.83. This was the bread, meat and frozen items trip plus more Juicy Juice (apple this time). Got 1.25lb gr turkey, 2 Juicy Juice, Mrs Paul fishsticks, 2 Nature's Own 100% whole wheat bread, Publix Rotis Chicken (supper @ 4.99), 2 lbs pork chops, 2 Dig Pizza ($4 lunch), 3 Boston Market meals ($5.50 lunch), 3 lbs of lunch meat (Daddy lunch), All natual cinnomon snacks (Frank IV's class snack contribution $.49) Public Big Paper Towel (.01) , Pert hair for Men ($.49)

TOP: $82.07. Total Value: $205.68. Total Savings: 123.61 or 60%. Total Coupons: $51.36.

This was a great grocery week (which is good 'cause my drug store deals were not as good but they will be next week).

Wags & CVS August 2-22, 2009

2009-08-22T09:07:00.004-04:00

CVS: quick trip for just two items. L'oreal eye treatment (14.99) and Cleaner (5.99). Used $4/20 facial product CVS, $4 ECB, $5 L'oreal coupon: TOP: 8.89 , Total Value $28.89. Total Savings $20 or 69%. Got Back $10 ECBs.

Wags: I had a pretty good trips to Wags last night. I got the last box of Huggies wipes for $.29 after Store and .50 MC, 4 M&Ms & Snickers (.49 for all 3 after $1/2 and B1G1), 2 Tylenol ($2, $1 MC, B1G1 @4.49), 2 jumbo crayons, 1 24 count crayon, pencil box, highlighters (my store only had one left) glue sticks, gummy worms (two year old favorite) & FINALLY I found Wags Children activity books.

I used a $3/15 RR, $2 wipes, $2 RR, .50 wipes coupon, $1/2 candy items, B1G1 Candy. It was $21 OOP with me getting back $5 RR & $6 RR. Total Value $57.24. Savings: $35.99 or 63%. No beeps since I had made sure my number of items exceeded my number of coupons.

CVS: FORGOT to split up my stuff my transactions so I ended up back with 26.79 ECBs and bigger TOP tonight. Just when I think I have the couponing down...Guess I will be shopping at CVS again soon. :)

Got Execedrin, Aveeno, drinks, personal items. TOP: $50.32, Total Savings: $45.02. Total ECbs back $26.79.

TOP: $80.21. Total Value: $181.47. Total Savings: 101.26 or 56%. Total Coupons & ECBs/RR: $46.29. Ending Total ECBs $26.79 and Total RR $11.

Grocery Store Shopping

2009-08-17T11:49:00.004-04:00

Kroger: TOP: $42.16. Total Savings: $40.23 or 49%. Total Coupons: $17.25. Nothing free but deals on Mega Sale. Stocked up on BC fuit snacks. Got strawberries which Frank IV immediately started eating out of the package.

Publix: TOP: $54.83. Total Savings: $36.21 or 40%. Total Coupons: $13.48. Nothing free but this does include dog food at $14.99 with $1.00 coupon. Without that would be almost 50% savings

Bi-Lo: TOP: $43.34. Total Savings: $31.15 or 42%. Total Coupons: $13.00. We did get $.66 Kraft cheese. Plus meat and salad mix.

Totals --> TOP: $140.33. Total Savings: $107.59 or 43%. Total Coupons: $43.73. Total Value: $247.92.

Baseball family fun.

2009-08-15T21:20:00.004-04:00

Daddy got Frank IV a new plastic baseball bat and ball tonight at CVS. We played ball in the front yards when we got home. Right now Frank is a better right fielder/"ball chaser" but he was swinging away with the bat. Of course I managed to hit the ball at him in the head but luckily not too hard. And while Frank IV was pitching he hit Mommy a couple times - Daddy said I was crowding the plate.

And the Braves beat the Phillies so a nice evening overall!

Great Trips to Walgreens & CVS

2009-08-15T21:05:00.003-04:00

CVS: T'action #1: L'Oreal Advance Cleansing Wipes (5.99), L'oreal Deep Eye T'ment (14.99), clearance paper plates (.75). Coupons: $4/$20 Facial Product CVS, $1 off L'Oreal cleanser, $5 off L'oreal Eye Treatment, $2 ECB, $4 ECB. TOP: $6.97 with tax. Got back $10 ECB.

CVS T'action #2: 4 Pepsi 12 packs, 1 clearance baseball bat and ball (plastic summer for Frank IV). Coupons: $10 ECB. TOP $5.32. Got back $4 ECB.

CVS: Total Savings $43.56 or 78%. Total Value $55.85. Total ECB used: $16, Total Coupons: $6 and $4ECB for next trip.

Walgreens: 2 boxes Playtex tampons (3.99 each), 6 tubs of Huggies wipes (2.79 each), 6 bags of BIC pens (2/$1.00). TOP: $7.19, Used 4.50 in RR that expired 8/16, Total Coupons/savings: $22.50 or 76%. Got pens for free after 3 $1.00 off coupon, Huggies were $.29 for 2 and $.79 for 4, playtex $2.99 each after coupon.

Mommy has big hair

2009-08-12T11:27:00.002-04:00

Yesterday morning I was trying to brush Frank's hair. Since I got it cut I have tried to keep a little neater before school. I tried to brush it and Frank grabbed the brush and wanted to do it himself of course. Then he said he was "too little" to do it. He then said Mommy has big hair. I laughed and asked him are you sure Mommy has big hair? He said YES Mommy have big hair.

First Day of School

2009-08-10T12:55:00.004-04:00

Frank IV had his first day of the official 2009-2010 school year today. He was wearing his uniform as were his friends. It made them look more grown up! I took a big bag of school supplies in for Frank. Hopefully they are having a great day without too much crankiness after being out of school a week.

No picture (unless I take one tonight) because after we went to bed early I still woke up late. Oops! But I had everything packed and ready to go including having both our outfits ready which helped me catch up some time. We still got to school a little late but his class was still eating breakfast. So Mommy got to work right at 8:30. And Mommy has been busy all day since then.

CVS saving game

2009-08-10T12:46:00.004-04:00

Okay I had been hesistent about saving at CVS or Wal-greens but I did try CVS on Saturday night (after 6pm for this week's deals) and I actually did good.

Bought 2 packs of Pull Ups ($9), Coppertone Nutrashield Sunscreen with free face lotion ($8.99), Huggies wipes ($3) and CVS lotion ($1.49). Used $1.49 free lotion coupon, $5/$25 purchase coupon, CVS ECB $4, ECB .99, Coppertone coupon $5.00, Pull Ups coupons $2 & $1.50 and Huggies wipes coupons $.50.

Total Value: $42.70. TOP: $11.75. Total Savings: $30.95 or 72%. ECB used: $4.99. Coupons: $9.00 manufacturer coupons and $5.00 CVS coupon. And best part ECB received: $6.00 for the next trip.

In my basic terms I got all that for the regular price of one package of Pull Ups! And it was quite easy and no problems (unlike when I try to use my Wal-greens ones).

Grocery deals...

2009-08-08T16:46:00.004-04:00

Went shopping without Frank IV since he is still in Virginia - they are on route to SC as I type. We have a big Monday ahead of the "first"day of the school year. Uniforms are starting and I have big bag of school supplies ready to take in. Plus I had a little something for his teachers but I have to find it. Lol. All this buying on sale has me desperately needing more space. I REALLY NEED a big freezer.

Bi-Lo. Total Value: $118.64. TOP $52.77. Total Savings $67.71 or 57%. Total Coupons: $14.90. Was supposed to be a free Shout spray but I do not see it in receipt plus no bag credit...I did get Kleenex for $.81 a box for big boxes and anti-viral boxes. Spent $.14 on butter quarters and $.11 on cat treats (probably for church although one of neighbor cats likes Frank IV).

Publix. Honestly I needed $52 to get to me to the $150 for Kraft rebate. Then I forgot my list at home and shopped without a list. Bad, very bad Blakely but there were lots of good stuff on sale! And I did get the rest of my Kraft rebate items so I just have to mail off to get my $30 in Publix gift cards.

Total Value: $243.67. TOP: $127.36. Total Savings: $120.03 or 49%. Total Coupons: $37.34. Free: Kraft BBQ Sauce and Honey bunches of oats cereal. I got Kraft cheese for $.66 each, crayons 24 ct $.33/each, elmer's glue $.33 each, Chex mix for $.67 bag, Excedrin Migraine $1.00 for 24 count. And why I need a big freezer Tyson fajita kits were $4.99 (regular $7.99) and I have a $1.00 off coupon. Two bags makes a great EASY dinner when I add black beans to it. Yum!

Totals: Value: $362.31. TOP: $180.13. Total Savings: $187.84 or 52%. Total Coupons: $52.24.

prayer request updates

2009-08-06T12:07:00.002-04:00

We are still praying for the house to sell, business to improve, health concerns for Nana, Uncle Bill, Uncle Winfield and Mylene's Mom Leony. "Mama Leony" will be having surgery soon. Plus we need safe travels for Frank IV, Nannie and Granddaddy. We are happy to know Poppy Bob and Moo are safely back from their travels.

We are blessed with each other and looking forward to new school year at daycare. The first PTO meeting is August 20.

Love to everyone. :)

Power Outage

2009-08-06T12:05:00.003-04:00

It was dark and HOT last night at our house since the power went out before I got home at 6:30 and stayed off until 3:00am. It was really bad for Frank because he could not use his machine. So neither one of us slept much and poor Wolfie panted like he was in Sahara. It was a relief to have air again!

I did get one coat of paint on the trim done and i am hoping to finish up tonight. It was hard to see in the dark.

Frank's Visit to Virginia

2009-08-03T10:53:00.003-04:00

Frank IV left yesterday with Nannie and Granddaddy for his week in Virginia. They made it safely there last night and Frank was already playing with his cousins Hunter and Jordan. Frank was quick to tell Mommy and Daddy bye-bye when the words "we are going fishing" were mentioned. Today, Granddaddy planned to take his boys fishing. Hopefully no one falls in the water - I know they will all have a great time.

It was quiet around the house last night and Markie and Wolfie were glad to get some attention from Mommy and Daddy for a change.

*****

Frank is loving his time in VA. He does not even want to talk on the phone with Mommy or Daddy because he is too busy having fun!

Fuel for School Rebate

2009-08-02T17:29:00.003-04:00

Kelloggs has a Fuel for School Rebate of $10.00 for buying 10 items of participating items. You have to purchase all 10 at one time.

Today at Publix, I got 2 big boxes of Fruit Loops w/marshmallows, 4 boxes of Pop Tarts and 4 boxes of 100 Calorie Cheezits or Cookies. These 10 items were all B1G1. Plus 1 gallon of Publix Milk and 2 - 4 count Danimal Yogurts.

Total Value $21.76. TOP: $9.66 (plus I still get $10 rebate check). Coupons: $12.10. Turns out with purchase of cereal you got $2 off Milk and with purchase of 2 100 calories you got $2.00 off 2 yogurts. And I had 2 $1/1 yogurts coupons plus coupons for B1G1 items. I got milk for $.99/gallon and free yogurt!

House update

2009-08-01T10:06:00.002-04:00

Please keep the sale of our house and the direction of our business in prayer. We continue to have interest in the house and really need to get it sold. Getting it sold will help us make a decision on the business. Right now we are in limbo about what to do.

I know prayer works so keep it coming please!

Grocery Update

2009-08-01T10:00:00.007-04:00

Had to use the coupons expiring 7/31 yesterday...should be a good Sunday paper tomorrow.

Kroger: TOP: $22.00. Total Savings: $46.16 or 71%. Coupons: $31.29. Total Value: $68.16.
Free: 3 Crest toothpaste, Herbal Essense Styler ($2.99), most expensive: Huggies jumbo wipes $6.85 after coupons. Yes my e coupons worked.

Publix: TOP: $12.43. Total Savings: $14.75 or 54%. Coupons: $8.40. Total Value $27.18. Free: Deluxe Mac & Cheese (for Kraft rebate)

Second Publix Trip. TOP: $74.20. Total Savings: $70.32 or 49%. Coupons: $25.73. Total Value: $144.52. Free: 2 4 packs Danimal Yogurts, tomato sauce & I earned my $10 Kelloggs Rebate. School supplies: Washable Crayola Markers (8 count) $1.85.

Bi-Lo. Quick trip. TOP: $16.47. Total Savings: $12.31 or 43%. Coupons: $1.98. Total Value: $28.78. Free: Totino's Pizza Rolls

Final: TOP: $125.10. Total Savings: $143.54 or 53%. Total Coupons: $67.40. Total Value: $268.64

Sea of Troubles...

2009-07-27T09:46:00.002-04:00

Sometimes it feels like we are in a sea of trouble and doubts. Right now things are tough with the house not selling and trying to keep the business going with a tough economy. There are days that Frank is really down trying to figure out a way financially to keep us afloat. It is a scary time when if something to happened to one and us and we could not work the trouble we would be in right away. We are thankful for what we have...each other, Frank IV, jobs, good family and friends and a roof over our heads (plus an extra one across the city). It seems selfish at times to be so worried about finances when others have lost family members, are sick or are worse off than we are. We have said all along we are praying about it and putting it in God's hands.

Yesterday's sermon at church reiterates that all we can do is put our troubles in God's hands. Jesus is our "life jacket" in times of trouble and he can get us out of the mess or walk with us through the mess. Jesus said in John 6:16-21 "It is I, do not be afraid." We have been praying for Jesus to help us and while we are still troubled, I do believe Jesus is there beside us holding us up. I wish Jesus would get us out of this financial mess (or at least send us a little sunshine instead of more rain) and sooner rather than later but patience is something I always pray for. And it may be God's will that we stay in the mess awhile longer while he continues to hold our hand. Either way, in this time of trouble I truly feel closer to Jesus and I am working daily to turn my troubles over to him. I am also thankful for what I have and pray for patience.

As we were driving up to Tivey's Mom funeral, a friend asked what did I want to do before I died? I answered other than to tell everyone I loved them - nothing. I am trying very hard to be thankful for where I am right now and for all the blessings that I have. I do not want to have regrets by not living in the moment we are given. The past is in the past and we cannot change it. We are just given this moment...so to my family and friends - I love you and appreciate you more than you will ever know!

Summer is almost over...general update

2009-07-25T18:23:00.004-04:00

Frank has one more week of school before his vacation week then school starts up again. Starting in August Frank will be wearing a uniform to school except on free day Friday. he will have a school supply list to buy next week too.

Hopefully we will get a up little earlier and be on time for breakfast. Frank does not see the connected between going to bed earlier in the evening to not be so sleepy in the mornings. That way Mommy gets to work ontime!

Frank will be in Virginia for most of his vacation week visiting Nannie, Granddaddy, cousins Hunter & Jordan and Aunt Leanne and Uncle Jeff.

Mommy is teaching a CLE on Friday August 14 in Charleston so we will be there for the weekend most likely.

Daddy is busy at store - pray for increased sales as we have to make a decision about the current lease we are in.

The Riverwalk house is still for sale. Please pray for a sale soon.

Football season starts September 3, 2009. Let's Go Gamecocks!

Groceries week ending July 26

2009-07-25T12:09:00.004-04:00

I still have to grab $10 worth of stuff including my salad mix for lunch next week to get my Publix penny item tomorrow but I am done with everything else. We did pretty good this week.

Kroger: TOP $26.70. Total Savings: 61% or $44.74. Total Coupons: $29.60 Free: cat treats (church), dog treats, Fiber One Yogurt (we got Key Lime) and Chaquita apple slices which Frank immediately ate. This includes Night time Pull Ups for 4.99 after coupon.

Bi-Lo: TOP $34.47. Total Savings: $44.03 or 56%. Total Coupons: $10.83 + $5 Bi Lo Coupon. nothing free. As usual, we got meat here...sandwich meat, ribs, hot dogs.

Publix: TOP $86.81. Total Savings $65.59 or 43%. Total Coupons: $26.20. Nothing free but Pillsbury reduced sugar cake mix was $.14 each

Total Coupons: Total Value Purchased: $302.94 . Total Paid: $147.98. Total Savings: $154.98 or 51%. Total Coupons: $47.86 + $5.00 Bilo catalina used.

And with all of this if I only had a big freezer I could have some even better deals!

Final Note; 2nd Publix trip; TOP $20.92. Total Savings: $33.88 or 62%. Total Coupons: $14.61. Free Chef Boyarde (with $.15 overage), free Publix tostito chips (Penny item rang up $.02 less than coupon since it was a replacement) .39 juice boxes and the peach that Frank IV started to eat in the store along with $.33 Crayola crayons. (We have started a school supply box while the buying is good :) )

Total Weekly Coupons: $62.47 + $5.00 Bi-Lo Cantalina.

Grocery Store shopping

2009-07-20T15:13:00.005-04:00

The two weeks have been hectic with me being in Atlanta, coming home sinus infection, work and Tivey's Mom's funeral in Richmond so groceries were the last thing on the list. With that being said I did okay this week.

Publix: I saved $89.62 or 50%. For some reason my receipt is at least 2 feet long too. I did get 24 count Crayola crayons for $.33/each and free 6 pack of diet coke bottles. I got free McCormick black peppercorn and McCormick peppercorn mix seasonings. Also got free salad and free band aids.

Bi-Lo: I saved $63.74 or 41% plus a $5.00 catalina for next trip to Bi-Lo.
I got free Southern Homes Whole Wheat bread (nice kind), $.19 Suddenly Salad , $.10 Knorr side, can butterbeans $.30, $.44 Pert For Men shampoo/conditioner, & $.26 hydrogen peroxide counting $5 catalina next trip.

All trips without Frank IV.

Total Purchased Value: $333.69. Total OOP: $182.91 (spent very little last week so had to catch up some). Total Savings: $153.36 or 45%. Total Coupon Value: $49.52. Advertised Store Savings $103.84.

Seeing friends..

2009-07-20T15:12:00.003-04:00

It was really nice to see and spend time with Angel, Mylene, Thuy and Tivey. I wish it had been for a happy occasion rather than a funeral. However, we are going to try and plan a happy weekend soon. We all said we could not believe how long ago we were at Wofford together.

I love y'all!

Back from Atlanta Market

2009-07-13T12:11:00.003-04:00

and hard at work again. Thanks to Mom we have a much cleaner house and are getting Frank IV toys organized once again.

Came home sick yesterday but hopefully will be feeling better soon.

Overall, Market seemed slower than in January with many fewer people around at least to me. We made a couple of orders - got a pretty good deal at one place. We will have some really cute lunch bags for office ladies and kids along with cute backpacks in the next couple of weeks

Happy 4th of July

2009-07-04T18:27:00.000-04:00

We are at home relaxing. I hope everyone has a great weekend!

Grocery deals Week ending June 28

2009-06-28T17:20:00.002-04:00

We are looking forward to having the 4th off this week from work and cooking the ribs we got last week on sale! With our savings this week we got some random items along with dog food, sandwich meat, drinks, bread and cheese.

All of this week's trips were made with Frank IV.

Bi-lo. We saved $48.33 or 54% in about a 20 minute run in trip. Got green tea bags for $.30 but nothing free.

Kroger. We took advantage of buying 10 race items twice to get two $3.00 off instantly. We saved $74.23 or 61%. Best deal with 10 Kool-aid packages for free and Domino sugar for $.09 and free BBQ sauce as well.

Publix. We bought Pull-ups (nightime $7.39 after $3.00 in coupons) plus 5 12 packs of Pepsi. Still we saved $50.10 or 48%. We did get free 12 pack and free mustard then Lysol cleaner at $.35.

We found several free items and out most expensive item was dog food $9.49 (smaller bag was on sale this week).

Total: $147.84 spent for $320.50. Total % saved: 54%. Total Coupon Value $68.23.

Easter Pics - Easter Egg Hunt at Grace

2009-06-21T16:58:00.002-04:00

Happy Father's Day

2009-06-21T16:56:00.000-04:00

We love you Granddaddy, Pap and Poppy Bob! Hope you have had a great day.

Grocery Store Trips Week Ending June 21, 2009

2009-06-21T16:26:00.004-04:00

KROGER Shopping Trip pics (12 packs of Pepsi not shown)

Publix. Saved $40.01 and 44% this week. I stocked up on deodorant for Frank (4) and random other things that were on sale or that we needed like lunch stuff for both me and Frank. Nothing too exciting but all things we will use and eat. Although I did get two sets of free emory boards plus a little overage ($.22 in overage which almost paid for my 4 pack of Yoplait Yoplus Yogurt for $.25. )

Bi-Lo. I got a $.40 discount for bringing my own bags. Being green can save money sometimes! I saved $56.03 or 48% this week, including 6lbs of country style ribs, 3.6lb. of chuck roast and 3 8 oz rib eye steaks. That goes with the 2.5lb of Kraft cheese plus 32 slices, two boxes of Fruit Loops ($.55 each) , frozen McKenzie corn ($.26 each) Chips, popcorn, Ken's dressing, cinn rolls, grands, cookie dough and breadsticks (buy 4 get $2.00 instantly and I had a $.75 coupon), trix yogurt, salad mix and tomatoes and couple other things,.

And the fun trip was Kroger where I saved $60.02 or 57%. And I have a picture of this one. It is really kind of random things like cookies, shampoo, razers, 5 bags of animal crackers, bread, milk and 5 12 packs of Pepsi (one was free with 4/$12.00) which are not in the picture. The suave deodorant was free with coupon for one and $.25 for the other. Not too bad.

Total Coupons Used: $51.68

Frank IV was with me at Kroger and Publix which was interesting. We are pretty stocked up now as you might imagine. It looks like steak tonight for Father's Day.